Couples Counseling for Sexual Issues
Helping Good Relationships Get Their Spark Back via Online therapy for couples across Pennsylvania – based in Macungie, PA
You’re a strong couple. You communicate well (most of the time), you respect each other, and you genuinely love being together. But behind closed doors, something’s not quite right.
Maybe sex has started to feel like a chore, or it's faded into the background entirely. Maybe one of you wants more intimacy while the other feels shut down. Or perhaps you’ve never quite clicked sexually the way you hoped to. Whatever the reason, you both know: this part of your relationship needs attention.
You’re not in crisis. You still laugh together, make big life decisions as a team, and genuinely enjoy each other’s company. But when it comes to sex, there’s frustration, awkwardness, or silence. You want to feel closer again. You want your sex life to reflect the love you have for each other.
And you don’t want to just "go through the motions."
This is where couples sex therapy comes in.
A Different Kind of Couples Counseling
Let’s get this out of the way: I don’t do crisis couples therapy. If you're fighting constantly, dealing with infidelity, or considering separation, I’m probably not the right fit.
But if you have a solid relationship—you love each other, trust each other, and communicate fairly well—and sex is the only part that feels off, then we might be a great match.
I specialize in working with couples who want to strengthen their sexual connection. My role is to help you untangle what's getting in the way and build a more satisfying, fulfilling sex life—without blame, shame, or awkward homework.
You deserve to feel connected, desired, and confident in your relationship. That’s not too much to ask.
Why Do Strong Couples Struggle With Sex?
Sex is one of the most vulnerable parts of any relationship. It’s influenced by everything: stress, hormones, life transitions, trauma, health issues, parenting, and more. Even couples with excellent communication and deep emotional intimacy can struggle to maintain a satisfying sexual connection.
Some common reasons couples seek sex-focused counseling include:
A mismatch in desire (one partner wants more sex, the other less)
Pain during sex or difficulties with arousal or orgasm
Performance anxiety or erectile dysfunction
Past trauma, body image concerns, or shame
Loss of spark after children, menopause, or medical issues
Feeling more like roommates than lovers
Lack of sexual communication or confidence
Feeling out of sync in preferences or needs
None of these issues make your relationship weak. In fact, acknowledging them and seeking support can be a powerful act of love and commitment.
What Couples Sex Therapy Looks Like
Working with me means creating a safe, respectful space where we can talk openly about your sexual dynamic—without blame, pressure, or awkwardness. You don’t need to perform, overshare, or talk about things that make you uncomfortable. But you can expect honest, meaningful conversations that help you grow.
Our work together often includes:
Exploring the emotional and physical patterns that shape your intimacy
Understanding your sexual histories and how they show up now
Building emotional safety and communication around sex
Reigniting desire and discovering what turns each of you on
Learning how to ask for what you want (and hear each other with curiosity)
Creating new habits, rituals, and practices that support intimacy
This process is collaborative and customized to you. There is no one-size-fits-all solution. But with the right guidance, couples often find that intimacy becomes easier, more fun, and more deeply connected than ever before.
A Judgment-Free Zone
Sex can be a tough topic. There’s often embarrassment, grief, or frustration tangled up in what "should" feel good. Many couples wait years to talk about their sexual struggles. That’s why it’s so important to work with a therapist who is trained, nonjudgmental, and comfortable navigating these conversations.
As an AASECT-certified sex therapist, I have advanced training in sexual health and intimacy. I’m also a licensed clinical social worker, which means I bring a holistic understanding of emotional wellbeing to our work. But perhaps just as important: I bring humor, humility, and humanity to the room.
I’m not here to judge or pathologize you. I’m here to help you reconnect—with each other, and with yourselves.
What Makes Me Different
A lot of couples tell me they’ve tried therapy before, but it never really touched the sexual part of their relationship. Or worse, they were met with discomfort or unhelpful advice.
This is different.
Sex isn’t an afterthought here. It’s the heart of our work together. And while I’ll absolutely help you improve communication or increase emotional intimacy if needed, the goal is to help you feel more sexually connected in a way that fits your unique relationship.
You don’t need to be into wild experimentation or have a specific "problem" to address. You just need a willingness to explore what’s working, what’s not, and what’s possible.
Online Couples Therapy Across Pennsylvania
I offer therapy via secure, HIPAA-compliant telehealth. That means you can join sessions from anywhere in Pennsylvania—from your living room, your kitchen table, or even separate locations if that’s easier for your schedules.
Whether you're in the Lehigh Valley, Pittsburgh, Philadelphia, or a small rural town, you can access specialized couples sex therapy without the commute or hassle.
Online therapy makes it easier to show up for this part of your relationship. No waiting rooms. No awkward parking lot debriefs. Just you, your partner, and a space to focus on your connection.
Let’s Get Real About What You Want
This isn’t just about sex. It’s about closeness, confidence, and joy. It’s about feeling seen and desired by the person you love. It’s about finally talking about the elephant in the room—so you can stop tiptoeing around it and start creating something better.
You deserve a sex life that feels alive, loving, and authentic. And you don’t have to figure it out alone.